Easy Tips to Have Happy Relationships

Easy Tips to Have Happy Relationships

by Brian Bagnall

Have you ever dreamed of having a magic wand to make your love last longer? If there was a magic wand, love would be all around us and there wouldn’t be anymore sorrow. Or maybe it’s just that some people learn secrets of success from their grandparents or other relatives or friends. And since the latter is probably more accurate, here are some tried and true tips from people who have enjoyed long, happy relationships.

Dates: Keep dating each other. Even if life seems too busy, meet at the end of the evening for something light and easy, like watching your favorite sitcom (record it if necessary) together or playing a game of Monopoly.

Space: Give each other some space. Either you trust your partner or you don’t. Get on with life, though. People need time alone and with other friends. Be sure to give and take your fair share of space.

Forget: Don’t always remember the bad things that happened during your relationship. Actively forget sometimes. Be the first to apologize and kiss and make up. Go for it!

Fun: Couples tends to have fun on dates, then get married and become too serious. Lighten up. Head to Yahoo Games and join in any number of card or other games. Or head to a local rental shop and rent an Xbox or other game player and play some games. Be creative.

Disagree: Agree that it’s okay to disagree on some issues, and leave it at that. There’s no need to create a new religion or political movement just to appease both of you. You don’t have to agree on everything. And you won’t. And that’s okay.

Refresh: Take time to look back, refresh your memory and share what brought you together. Especially when times are difficult, lean back and rely on these old memories as your foundation and glue yourselves back together with them (not literally, of course!) 🙂

Memories: Make some together. Enjoy special moments, special anniversary dates and events. No need to be elaborate. For example, maybe you enjoyed watching a hot air balloon race one spring day. The next year, you might schedule time to watch it again and make it an annual event.

Start now with these simple ideas to keep your relationship with your special person new and exciting. Most important of all, couples can happily stay together as they grow to understand and complete each other.

To a happy, healthy and long relationship!